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Death is usually not sudden. Generally one becomes weaker over
time and more time is spent sleeping. Energy levels may decrease
substantially and one becomes more reliant on others. It is likely
that there will be a lack of interest in eating or drinking and
just enough fluid to keep the mouth moist will be required. The Process
of Dying leaflet helps to explain some of the changes that
occur and What
to do when someone dies.
Preparing for death
It is possible to prepare for the time of death and with some
diseases the doctor can give you some idea of when you may expect
death to occur. In other diseases this is very difficult. You may
like to ask your doctor or nurse about what can be expected around
the time of death. This may help one to be less anxious
about what will happen.
One can prepare for death by creating memories. For example
there are many ways messages can be left behind and this includes
writing letters to people who are special or to those you have not
seen in a long time. Other examples include:
- Diaries
- Photo albums
- Time capsules (small packages opened at a later date)
- Video/audio recordings
- Obituary
Special possessions can include jewellery, a favourite book,
art, music or writing. These can be distributed in a will or given
now which provides an opportunity to explain the importance of the
treasure and why they have been chosen as a gift.
More information under website links
refer to death and dying and Planning.
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